He's Just Not That Into You

Everybody's talking bou the movie, friends, even radio stations. random people commenting that you'll find it useful after watching the movie, that women'll understand men more and men'll understand women more. I find it likewise, personally, it's a little draggy, makes it boring and not trying to be bimbotic, i know certain rules stated in the movie. funnily, women are just women and as the movie shows, women will find all sorts of reasons and excuses to rebut the rules. and yes, i'm one of them. i'm a woman too and somehow loves complicating things. :)

It sets me thinking how true the rules are and that rules can be twisted by anyone isn it? i mean aren rules meant to be in general, are there really exceptions, are all men the same? the traits, characters, behaviour, body language etc. or do some men try to be different and make it hard for women to read them? or is it vice versa? or it's just that simple, that he's really just not that into you and us women are just deceiving ourselves?

who hasn been in a situation whereby you dont know whether he or she is really into you or just leading you on or claims that he or she is into you but showing likewise? i definitely had been in this situation and it always makes me wonder, am i really just keeping it for the sake of keeping it, or am i really that tolerant when im already so tired. or am i the one wrong for being so called demanding? but are all of them demands or expectations, i mean i seriously doubt so, cos all are just basics or am i taught wrongly the whole of my life? friends can do much better isn it.

or mb it really is just karma, i mean i admit that im not totally a good gf in all relationships but when i start telling myself that i have to be a good one, it seems that karma's upon me. i ask myself, since all the signs are just right in front of me and nobody bothers to explain the signs shown arent true, why am i still hanging on, making myself feel miserable, making the other half miserable too. maybe im still living in a world of deceit, not willing to wake up yet, and trying to prove that he's just that into you.

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i thank those who understand me, but for those who dont, just fark off and keep your mouth shut for goodness sake. i am bitchy when there's a need to.