FRIENDS

what is your definition of a friend? has anyone ever think about it?

Wikipedia's definition shows that: Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism.

And the values found in a friendship?

Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:

• the tendency to desire what is best for the other
• sympathy and empathy
• honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart
• mutual understanding

I personally feel that friends don't just share hardship, but happiness and joy too, also able to talk about anything under the sun and will call you or make time for you no matter what, not just one-sided or all talks and that's for a true friend.

So, why the sudden interest to write a post on friends? Well, I realised I have so many friends that none can consider as a true friend. I mean honestly and seriously. All just come and go, and none's willing to give up their time for you? no matter how you deem the person as a true friend. This post may hurt a few people, but well, if you really do feel hurt, then you prolly are a friend. If not, don't give me talks.

Yup, I have nth to hide, I do feel left out. mb cos I've always wanted a true friend who's there for me, who can share jokes with me, who can have dinner with me, or even shopping, movies, whatever, I understand it can't be always because people are busy with lots of things too but you guys know what I mean. I've always wanted to. But it seems like that's quite impossible and I admit to fate. Rather than asking people out and having rejections or with people being so busy or to have friends with big mouths, I choose to be a loner and coop myself at home. cos at least I know, my family's always here for me, especially Lakz.

Lakz is considered as a true friend to me. Although he can't talk, but at least I share many many many things with him. And so that's why I cannot lose him. Was so silly last night crying over things that hasn't happened. I cried because I am so afraid that I will lose Lakz, so afraid that I'll lose my only confidante, and sad that people around me just like to talk.

Well, maybe it's just me. I know what kind of person I am. too direct, too straightforward, doesn't care how my words may hurt people. maybe it really is me. but what is wrong with speaking up my mind if you are a true friend. ohwell.

i know, such an emo post but whatever. I just want to say whatever I want to say. Ciao.