alison

i blog when im unhappy, because it's the same as telling your problems to somebody, even though this somebody's a nobody. at least, i get things out of my mind. BUT, everytime before i even start blogging, im at a loss of words, dont know where to start nor how to put it down in words. everything's just all in my mind. it's just like when i already have the answer but when people asked me the question, i'll not know how to answer and just keep quiet. for example, people ask me what's the difference between a companion and a partner. i know what is it, but i dunno how to answer. it's so weird isn it.

anyway, back to the question, what's the difference between a companion and a partner? a partner meaning someone who loves you(be it bf or gf). in my point of view, a companion is just a person whereby when one needs company, then one will call for he or she. the individual who treats one as a companion doesn care nor be bothered with them. it's a matter of, when i need you, i look for you, when i dont, you're out of my sight.

a partner will be different, he or she will care or be bothered bou you. care and bothered doesn mean oh, have u had dinner, are you feeling better or just form of words, but rather showing it, expressing it. (if not how the hell the party knows right). to me, if your partner really bothers from the bottom of their hearts, you can feel and tell it. if not, the partner isn really a partner anymore.

1. there are definitely certain things a partner will be jealous or feel unhappy bou. (this is common sense la, everybody should know). however, not being jealous or unhappy to the very extreme end of course.
2. a partner calls you just for 5mins to say hey baby, i miss you and love you.
3. a partner makes sure or wants to be there when their partner is facing some problems or feeling stressed, not telling them that hey, sad things should be kept to yourself.
4. a partner wouldn mind and would like their partner to join his or her friends, cos it's just joining and knowing each other's friends, no big deal.
5. if your partner loves you, he or she will definitely try means and ways to keep this thing going even if the other party doesn want it anymore.
6. a partner accomodates and compromise and doesn tell you that i'll never ever change.
7. a partner do things willingly and happily to make the other party happy too.
8. a partner explains to you why he or she does so when they do not mean it at all.

and the numbers go on. cant really think of more, mb you people can try adding on.

ohwell, mb im wrong but that's what i always feel.